The Offended Virgin

I went to Wal-Mart yesterday and saw that girl dressed up like she was going clubbing. As she walked in, the greater looked her up and she got all offended. She gave him a dirty look and barked a not-so-polite “What?” at him. The poor man looked down almost ashamed and I felt for the man because to me he didn’t do anything wrong. If you dress up that provocative, you should expect to attract attention.

It reminded me of a story a few years back. I was at work smoking a cigarette with some friends, when this girl, from work as well, joined us. She was wearing this skirt that actually look more like a big belt, a tiny tank top that you wonder if they went out of fabric while doing it and some “fuck me boots”. So one of the guys with me asked her, “Where are you going out tonight?” She looked all surprised and said, “No where why?” Because you look like a clubbing whore, but I kept that thought to myself. So the same guy, explained himself saying that she was a bit over dress up for work. (I actually thought she was underdressed, but I guess that’s a question of point of view.) She switched off completely, going on and on about the fact that she was allowed to be sexy even at work and that her look today was nothing special. So the boys’ talk began. “Oh come on girl, you are indeed sexy but also really provocative, you look ready for a hot night.” “Yeah when my girlfriend dresses like this I know I will have some fun that night.” She started to loose it; screaming she was a bright girl and not only a body, that men were all the same, only thinking about sex. I had kept my mouth shut until then but I couldn't help myself anymore.

“What did you expect? You have to assume yourself girl. You wear a skirt that show half of your ass and don't want guys to look at it? Your breast is winking at them beneath what you call a tank top and you don't expect guys to answer the invitation? Your entire look say, “Fuck me right here,” and you get offended that guys think about actually doing it. I got some news for you, good girl don't dress like bitches and vice versa. So if you want to be the good bright girl like you said, wear a turtleneck!!! Other wise assume yourself and stop playing the offended virgin.” She called us a bunch of jerks and losers and left.

Okay, I admit it; we went a bit hard on her, but God someone had to tell her. Wake up and face who you are. I find it annoying. It’s like who are you kidding here. The whole point of showing off is that people look at you. So if you show your ass well we are going look at it. Now if you can't handle it, dress differently. End of story.

It's like last year I saw an interview with Britney Spears and she was going on and on about the fact that men look at her like a piece of meat. Okay girl, you made a video nearly naked with 10 guys, moaning and rubbing your ass on their crotch singing “I'm a slave for you,” and you tell me you didn't see it coming!

I just hate it. If you want to be bitch or provocative, be it, but assumed it. And beside there's a difference between sexy and slut. It's a question of arrangement. Wear your fuck-me-boots but with a longer skirt. You can wear you tiny tank top but with a nice pair of jeans. You can even wear that belt skirt of yours but with a t-shirt maybe and not at work! But if you are one of those who plead the free expression and scream high and loud that you're allowed to wear whatever you want, fine, it's true. But remember, we are also allowed to think that you're a bitch!